A fair decision can still disappoint someone. My responsibility is to make the grounds intelligible, hear the challenge without punishing it and ensure that managers have the time and authority to carry the decision through.
My first difficult personnel conversation concerned a payroll error, not a strategic workforce plan. A branch employee had arranged a family payment around a sum we had confirmed incorrectly. I could explain how the mistake entered the system, but that did not make the explanation useful to her. I stayed with the correction until the money arrived and then worked through the control failure with my supervisor. That experience gave me an early distinction between explaining an organisation's process and accepting responsibility for its effect on another person.
Arif Widyantara
Chief Human Resources Officer